Often marriage is thought of as the joining of two people.  In reality, marriage joins many lives.  This is most apparent when the bride and/or groom have children.  With children present, marriage becomes the proclaiming of a new family.  And without a loving commitment to those children, a wedding ceremony is incomplete.

In the ceremony proper, a bride and groom take an oath to each other (the exchange of vows).  A similar oath can be taken with children as well.

Other variations of the new family joining together exist, such as gift giving.  Jim will be happy to discuss options with you.